i'm having trouble blogging today... i know what i want to write about, but i'm having trouble actually saying what i want to say. but that in itself is what i want to blog about. and i guess it's ironic that i want to write a blog about saying what you want to say, but i don't know exactly what i want to say...

why do we expect people to just know what we want? why do things have to be so complicated? they really don't have to be. if you want someone to do something, tell them. if you want to do something, do it. don't beat around the bush, stop hinting at things. tell people what you want.